So that's what happened to peanuts

You've been here all along.

I agree with you and I've said much the same in past posts.

We have two things to deal with. One is that we get a lot of anonymous posts from people that are trying to cause trouble or just get a reaction. For that reason I am opposed to anonymous access, but its not my board.

The other is that for just about everyone this can be an emotionally stressful situation, and people say things they probably wouldn't normally say.

I think we all have to be careful what we say and in particular be careful about how we react to others comments.

Bill